Three Day Rule Matchmaking Arvostelua 

Run! They do not listen to your preferences, i.e. they send you whatever people they have available, claiming that you should be more "open" to bad matches, and they cannot be trusted to have your back and to present you properly to ones that are appropriate matches. In my experience, they do not provide a level of service equal to what you spend. They will even shamelessly sell a package to people who do not live in a market they service, and they don't even seem to have enough clients in major markets (LA and NY), as evidenced by the continued direct recruiting they do on LinkedIn. Also, be wary of the over-the-top contracts they put in front of you. They are one-sided and you will not be protected. Only they are.

98% of the guys they presented to me were still married, were nowhere near my physical or age preferences, and worst of all - we didn't have any similar interests. It's a total crap shoot, just like any dating app. Save your money and get back to swiping for free or a much lower fee, or get a real matchmaker who knows what they're doing. I genuinely thought this would be a big step up from the apps. It's not.

If you decide to do it anyway, my advice is to make sure you know how you're being pitched to possible matches, because they will use your worst photos unless you tell them what to use, and they will do a very fast writeup that doesn't make you sound interesting at all. They do not care about matching people for love. It's just a rolling business model with a bunch of single matchmakers who work there part time and don't seem to know about dating themselves. They probably secretly resent their clients and purposely set them up to fail. I do NOT recommend this service, AT ALL.

I initially signed up for a matchmaking service in 2022 in Philadelphia. The matches provided were decent, surpassing the quality of those I found on dating apps in terms of compatibility. My final match during a three-month contract in Philly was so promising that I decided to renew for another three months after relocating to Miami. Unfortunately, this is where my experience deteriorated.

After signing the new contract in Miami, I was not informed that the service was not fully operational in this market. Consequently, my matchmaker struggled to find matches, leaving me without a single match for over a year. The quality of the few matches provided was extremely poor. Despite clearly stating my preference for a financially stable partner, I was matched with a 36-year-old man living with his parents due to financial constraints—an unacceptable match. I provided detailed feedback, but my matchmaker dismissed my concerns and refused a re-match, luckily I had one match left.

Now, 2.5 years later, the matchmaker has failed to fulfill the three-month contract and provides no regular updates on their progress. Despite my clear communication about my physical and emotional preferences, the matches have consistently been unsuitable. For those in Miami, I strongly recommend exploring other matchmaking services, as this company's performance in this market is substandard and not suited for high-caliber women. Despite breaching the contract (a three-month agreement stretching to 2.5 years), they have refused to offer a refund.

While I believe in the potential of matchmaking, having had positive experiences with other companies, I advise avoiding this service in Miami.

I enrolled in Three Day Rule (TDR) in April 2025 with the expectation of receiving a highly personalized, curated matchmaking experience, as advertised. I paid nearly $5,000 based on their assurances that matches would be hand-selected, aligned with my stated preferences, and reflect a high level of vetting.

In nearly two months, I was presented with five prospects.

One date: The only date that occurred made it clear there was no interest in a second meeting.

Two prospects: Were entirely outside of my stated preferences (one significantly older than my range, another significantly overweight).

One prospect: Was unresponsive, slow to communicate, and ultimately stated she was "too busy to date."

One prospect: While attractive and intelligent, was incompatible in a core area I was clear about from the outset (sex-positive mindset). After multiple dates, she turned away from even a simple kiss and admitted, "I don’t know what’s wrong with me," making it clear intimacy was not on the table.

These outcomes do not reflect the personalized vetting or compatibility screening that TDR promised. Despite multiple emails to their team (including escalations to “Customer Experience”), the resolution offered was to continue “trying” with no accountability for past failures, and they refused to consider any refund, citing a “non-refundable contract.”

While they did provide three matches, they did not meet the standards set forth in their own marketing. This service failed to deliver what was represented, and I am requesting that TDR either issue a partial refund or be formally investigated for misleading business practices.

I have acted in good faith, been patient and responsive throughout the process, but the service was not as advertised and has been a waste of both time and money.

FRAUD. I payed a lot of money and was never set up on dates. Don't trust them.

I have not done business with Three Day Rule, and I would not ever. However, I have had interactions with one of their salespeople/matchmakers—and by "had interactions" I mean "was harassed by"—that were disturbing enough for me to leave a review.

Three Day Rule's employee, Kristen (Krissy) Stewart sent an unsolicited message on the LinkedIn professional networking platform to "join her dating pool" with the company. I responded that LinkedIn was an inappropriate avenue for this type of message given its nature in dating and relationships; these have no place on that platform. I also reported the message to LinkedIn as inappropriate and blocked the account. Normally, this would be the end of it...normally.

This employee of Three Day Rule then took it upon herself to look me up on the Instagram social media platform and send another unsolicited (and unwanted) message. It is mindboggling that a person would consciously choose to do this. These actions speak to the poor mindset of the people representing Three Day Rule. Given the additional research necessary to find my account on another platform, this is harassment and on the road to stalking.

I hope to make others aware so they can avoid this type of uncomfortable interaction. I also hope Three Day Rule will take action to show there are consequences of this type of inappropriate behavior and proactively reassess how they evaluate the people they choose to represent them.

Scam artist company filled with liars and charlatans.

I generally don’t write negative reviews. But this company deserves one because I got defrauded. I will state objective facts that can be verified:

I was presented with a match that was divorced even though I indicated from the very beginning I don’t want to be matched with divorced women. I found this out using my own background search. When I confronted my matchmaker Simone with the information, she said she was aware that the woman was divorced and calmly said that marital status is not part of the contract.

The brochure stated I will be presented with 24 matches for the so-called “VIP” membership. But the actual contract states “3 Lists of Potential Matches to Member”. So this “3 lists” can be 3 lists of 2 women for a total of 6 if they like. In my case, the last three matches were presented as “bonus matches” and their contact information was withheld.

I strongly recommend the reader of this review to not become a victim of fraud like I did. You have been warned. Don’t go by their “testimonials” on their website.