VioletDates Arvostelua 161

Dating websites generally allow their clients to exchange contact details if they want to .

On VioletDates, you can never meet in reality, because if you try and send an email address or a phone number to the person that you think you are talking to, outside of the (pay-per-message) website, the site blocks the message.

The other tell-tale is that you can suggest meeting in a city, but the lady never agrees or replies to this approach.

I got chatting to a person whose profile said they were a 62-years old woman, but all the photos in her profile showed a woman about half that age.
I immediately got a sense of unreality.

You (the man) have to pay VioletDate approximately €1,500 to get a womans’s name, telephone number or email. But first, you have to get the woman to send her agreement, however, there is nowhere on the site to do this.

My honest advice, is avoid!

Most places like this turn weird after a week. This one’s been chill, no fake accounts, no spam. Just regular people using it. Everyone is so respectful and it makes it easy to open up

used a bunch of other sites before and most of them just eat your money. VioletDates is fair enough. you buy credits, use them how you want, I like that I’m not stuck with a useless subscription and I like chatting and pics.

I’m 42, single dad, not really a dating app guy. got curious, joined, and ended up having a few good chats after work. it’s nice to talk to adults who actually listen lol

I didn’t see too many Violetdates reviews around, so figured I’ll just try it myself. Turned out better than I thought, site runs fine, chats don’t bug out and girls actually chat. So far I am enjoying it

had an issue with logging in from another device, sent a quick message, got a reply in maybe two hours or so. dude on support was straight up, no copy lines, just helped me fix it. respect.

Good.. I like it. So far everyone I’ve talked to seems real. People reply in their own way, some quick, some slow, no copypaste bs. That’s how you know it’s not full of fakes.

Didn’t join for anything serious, just wanted to talk a bit. Ended up chatting with a few cute girls I still chat with. nothing fake or weird, just normal conversations. kinda surprised me tbh

Fraudulent, just a scam preying on men looking for love. Plain and simple

Just not being able to actually connect in real lifetime situation without money being a issues it grips my ass that it hit me from the start hell Ive not even seen if she truly a female of my liken really

This is a warning to other men that have been taken for much money with credits and other expenses. It is a FRAUD site. I've had women answer my questions before, at the same time, I hit send. How can that be unless they are watching what I am typing before hand. I suspect that they are not women but are writing by men. I was able to catch one woman doing that and had no explanatin for it. I had a woman that was coming out to join me and the day I was supposed to pick her up at the airport, she dropped out of the site. This wasn't a short time. I had been talking to her for over 8 months. Needless to say, my savings ran out of tens of thousands of dollars just be writing. She told me she had a job when she arrived with me as a doctor at a local hospital. She told me she was taking exams and qualified as number one with her grades over 4 other people. Her salary was going to be very high and she thought she could get more, so asked for it. And they offered it to her. Half way through the testing her specialty changed. That just dosen't happen. That's when I was guessing she had been lying to me all along. A number of times, I asked how they knew that I was messaging and the reply I always got was they know that I am messaging them. No one could be specific. How often do you see they are online when its the middle of the night at their home. Then they pick up soon after. Believe me and all the others that gave poor reviews.

She showed interest. Was not stuck up. Very open and respectful. Honest. Having a heart ❤️ and all the sexiness she can offer.

bunch of beautiful women there. Too bad all their profiles are professionally done because they were purchased from the stock photography house. Great place just to chat, because the women seem to be genuine. But don’t try to contact them in person. Every single CONTACT after spending 300–500 dollars is an impersonation. I should give this a lower score but I believed in it for a long time and consequently spent some serious cash that I didn’t have. Maybe I should give it a two but a three is more inappropriate because I believed. You will too for a while. Mark my words.

My main concern on this site is Transparency is a fundamental principle that involves openness, honesty, and the clear disclosure of information.
This company blocks to stop (something) from reaching someone or something
The lady’s name, telephone number or e mail you will not get.
The women don’t pay for the service but the men do,
A faded fight , give up you are wasting your time and money.
If I was on an island with ten million men and one woman , i would have a better chance of getting a date with the one woman , than this site.

Very good not hard I've been robbed on sites before it wat a fist for me an yes I'll come back soon waiting for bank card next week again be back soon as

Lots of pretty Ladies

Beautiful women and hot talk

This is NOT a dating site! They are a chat service where you pay an exorbitant price to talk to employees of the site who try to get you to waste credits so you need to keep buying more. At $500, credits are as ridiculous as the 5000 credits required to be spent only on one user, before being allowed to exchange contact information. Otherwise, their filtering system filters messages and regularly blocks normal correspondence as has been happening to me. Customer service was non-responsive and instead of a refund, just kept sending me emails intended to stall, since I was already chatting with customer service. And since nothing is guaranteed and women still choose if they just want to profit from or meet someone, it’s not worth it since no one ever got together on violetdates. 5000 credits would cost over $1,250 and take half a year, just to supposedly get a phone number, but it’s not guaranteed and it’s like you’re just starting to talk to that person again at that point.

So Violetdates is not being honest in saying they romance “to unfold at your own pace”. They DICTATE the pace (after you spend 5000 credits- $1,250). But like other reviews have noted, the “women” are NOT fellow paying users and are incentivized to get men to spend their credits. So I doubt getting contact information will matter at all because before they implemented their “content moderation system” aka- filter, I got the number to a dozen Ukrainian women. Of that, I got a dozen requests for money and didn’t meet anyone. So don’t bother, and don’t believe violetdates’ predatory and misleading claims. As a long time business analyst for a well known Fortune 500 bellwether that obviously will remain unnamed, I can however, put forth my professional assessment that Violetdates’ business model and operations seem solely focused on profit and extracting revenue from the “men”, who are the only paying “users”, with and by the efforts of the “women”. Their voracious enthusiasm for wanting to correspond with and engage romantically with an 83 year old man with no profile photo by 20 to 30 year olds who all give the exact same “age is just a number” explanation and rationale, makes it abundantly clear that “women” have no realistic expectations of ever meeting or actually being in a romantic relationship. It’s just not normal as the rule rather than the exception of all 20-30 yr olds. And the fact that they remain “logged on” and ready & available to reply around the clock, 24/7, 7d/wk, 52wk/yr, 12mnths/yr in and yr out can only mean they are either very motivated and incentivized (get paid well, OR there’s the other possibility that hundreds of stunningly beautiful 19,20,21, 22, 23 and up year olds are ALL solely obsessed with seducing an 83 yr old with no photo romantically, flirting sexually and sending explicit nude and anatomically revealing photos.) Possible? Sure it is, Remember Anna Nicole Smith married the 87 yr old billionaire? I’m closer to 38 than 83, but they don’t know that since i don’t have a profile pic and multi millionaire is good enough for now since I have lots of time still. But is it probable, practical, or even plausible that even one from each age from 19 and up, gets humid down south from a 83 yr old BF? 64 years older? I doubt it! But that obviously wasn’t considered because the flawed business model was based on maximal profit, and NOT “allowing romance to blossom naturally and comfortably” or whatever it was that they said that sounded so good, like a normal dating site. But the problem here is Violentaints. Violetdates is NOTHING like a normal dating site. And in their promotional pitch, they don’t mention anything about the true facts of the site. Now, why is that guys? Nothing about the arbitrary filtering software that blocks your messages and doesn’t tell you, even though it’s normal conversation? And nothing about requiring only men having to pay $200 to &500 for enough credits for carrying on a conversation with “women” who constantly try to make you open pictures, videos , and emails (for 50 credits each $12.50 , in addition to each text costing $2.50)? And most of all, why nothing about the 5,000 credit requirement, YES FIVE THOUSAND! Spent with ONE/EACH “woman” before you’re allowed to exchange contact information, but that guarantees NOTHING since the person or “woman” was texting for profit all along as was admitted to me by no less than four “women” who called VD their “job” (remember the 19 year olds interested in the 83 year old and how “women” are either “on duty” around the clock (perhaps because they’re AI chat bots) which would explain their long hours “on duty logged on” (just check how often their green light indicator is on. Hint: it rarely turns off. And if so, ALWAYS turns on if you send a text. Don’t those “women” sleep?

The top female user "just forgot" to whom she was speaking and what we discussed 10 hours ago; it seems that the second shift arrived, and the new website employee was not aware... They have a pattern: system icebreaker (90% sexual); then, audio/video file (in the chat window); afterward, a letter with a pack of pictures. All in one: 2 credits/message in chat + 10 credits + 50 credits (audio/video) + 90 credits pictures attached to the 1st letter + 30 credits subsequent letters + 90 credits other pictures pack to each letter... and counting! This is a nice business, my friends!
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Follow up: the company which runs VioletDates asked for more details, to verify that I’ve had a genuine experience with their business. Foremost, this means: my e-mail address, my full name and phone number! Now... come on! Why do they need my full personal information? This also breaks the rules of protection of personal data! They threaten me that if not, the company may not recognize my review as genuine - as if I care! I only wanted to advise other men to be cautious with such misleading dating platforms. I have nothing else to prove, nor do I owe them anything, so take care!

Guys save your money the ladies are all fake , they tell you what you want to hear . They will only talk on that site and use fake pics