I do not trust this site at all
I do not trust this site at all! I have been chatting with several women on Cupidlee quite a bit. Recently I noticed that they were online 24/7 which did seem a mite odd, but one is retired and the other is a teacher who is off for the summer so that’s plausible.
I have been very open with the users I chat with that I find the site very expensive and so to chat I very rarely look at pics or videos. (Watching a 10 second video can cost $15 in credits although simple chat prices are more typical for the industry) I ask people I chat with not to send them, but they still do! Sometimes I agree to look at one pic and they send me five, and maybe a video too. It costs about $2.50 each to send a pic and $$5.00 to send a video. I dont get why someone would spend the money on sending me something I wont look at and am quite sure these folks are not sending them just to me. Users on the site don’t get paid for sending them, so I wonder if making money for the site is the impetus for them being sent.
Often the women I speak to in the afternoon don’t seem to be the same person I was talking to on that profile the evening before. The “afternoon” writers seem to not really be responding to me and often just bring up random topics in the middle of a conversation asking "Did you eat?" or "How’s your dog?" They often can’t remember what we have previously discussed. I told one woman my real first name (because she asked) and whoever I was talking to on the profile the next afternoon didn’t know it.
In addition the differences in writing between different writers on a single profile can be stark. There can be language use differences, differences in how they respond, differences in what they call me (Love, Dear, King etc) and differences in what they want to talk about. The use of pronouns, (his, hers, yours, theirs etc) can also be non standard and seem to change radically at different times of the day.
Last night, a woman from Chicago texted me to say "Good Morning I hope you slept well." Not only was it was almost 11PM (Chicago time) but I had just signed off from texting with her and said goodnight 5 minutes earlier! I saw this happen previously with another profile as well. When I confronted two users on the issue of feeling like I was talking to different people on the same profile their responses were remarkably similar. They both said "No it's me dear." and "lets not worry about unpleasant things like that." More startling, neither of them appeared to have any memory of the conversation when I spoke to them later that evening.
So after some research on dating sites I now believe I know what is happening. Some sites have profiles that really aren’t one person, but rather are several people working in shifts for the site so the profile is active 24/7. Within a single profile they all have the same pics to send for consistency. This keeps guys paying for chat, paying to look at pics and vids, paying for gifts and making lots of money for the site. This explains the changes in writing styles or language use, the “forgetting” of previous conversations, having times of day wrong (pethaps one writer is in a different part of the world) and the almost relentless avalanche of pics, videos and gift requests.
As I noted at the beginning, I am very uncomfortable with the costs of almost everything on this site. Some ot the gifts are incredibly expensive and the site makes a pont of telling women to ask men for them. One woman asked me for the gift of a flogger that cost over 400 credits, If credits were purchased at the cheapest rate published on the site that flogger would cost about $104. For that expenditure the user gets an animated gift box with an animated flogger popping out of it. Some real floggers cost less than that! I saw another gift that would cost over $725 USD for the animated gift box and the animated gift inside.
I find it most disturbing that some profiles might not be real people, and the "women" I am chatting with might be paid employees of the site who’s job is to get me to spend money! To date I am certain that only 4 of the individuals I have met are “real.” I'm unsure about several more, and quite coinvinced that 5 or more are “fake.” It takes a discerning eye and a suspicious mind to tell the difference between and fake, and one has to pay for chat time to figure it out. (I will note that Cupidlee does not indicate the use of such profiles in their terms and conditions, but does acknowledge the use of “test profiles” which are said to be used to test the “functionality” of the site.
Final Assessment: The first 2 credit purchases are cheap, but afterwards the price doubles. Once on the site you will be bombarded with emails and messages from potentially fake profiles, pics and videos that are costly to open and requests from users for expensive gifts.
This is a rip off! Stay away.
21. heinäkuuta 2026
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